So, there are
three things that I wanted Brooklyn to do before the baby came:
1. Get rid of the
binky.
CHECK!!! It happened in August, and it actually wasn't as bad as I thought it would be - it just threw her sleeping habits off for awhile.
2. Get her to go to sleep on her own. Meaning, she goes in her room (at a decent hour) lays down and goes to sleep by herself. Without me holding her hand, without us laying by her, etc.
We are working on this one. And, hopefully, with the help of the Super Nanny's sleep separation technique, we should have this accomplished too.3. Have her potty trained, so I don't have to worry about changing two kids' diapers. : ) I decided to bite the bullet and give this a shot too.
Well, this is going to question my sanity. It is
so frustrating to give the whole speech about being a big girl, wearing big girl underwear, explaining the chart and rewards, etc. just to have
three accidents in an hour, twice. Yesterday and today. Yep, I took her potty every half hour to 40 minutes,
NOTHING. Then about five minutes later, she says "
Oh no, Mommy!" Dun, dun, dun. Two times it happened
right after I had taken her off the toilet and pulled up her underwear. We were still standing in the bathroom for crying out loud. : ) So, is it just me or is she really not ready? I was hoping to train her here in our apartment, rather than in our new house, with new floors. : ) And, I don't know if I can even deal with number 2 accidents. I found this little quiz off of the Mayo Clinic to see if your child is ready for potty training. Let's see here:
Is your child ready? Ask yourself these questions:
■Does your child seem interested in the potty chair or toilet, or in wearing underwear?
Sometimes . . .■Can your child understand and follow basic directions?
Yes.
■Can your child ask simple questions?
Yes.
■Does your child stay dry for periods of two hours or longer during the day? Does he or she wake from naps dry?
NO!!!
■Does your child have fairly predictable bowel movements?
No.
■Does your child tell you through words, facial expressions or posture when he or she needs to go?
No.
■Is your child uncomfortable in wet or dirty diapers?
No.
■Can your child pull down his or her pants and pull them up again?
I'm sure she could if I put her in sweats. : )
If you answered mostly yes, your child may be ready for potty training.
If you answered mostly no, you may want to wait awhile — especially if your child has recently or is about to face a major change, such as a move or the arrival of a new sibling. A toddler who opposes potty training today may be open to the idea in a few months.
I was reading another quiz and it asked, "Can your child sit still and focus on one thing for longer than a couple of minutes?" My answer, "I WISH!!!"So, do I keep trying even though
it is not clicking, and she obviously isn't ready? Or, do I wait until everything else calms down in our lives? Like once we get settled in our new house, once the baby comes, I could go on and on. All of you moms out there who have been through this, I would love your advice. For now, hope that I don't go crazy. : )